You’ve been invited over to someone’s home for an event and, although our culture has relaxed on some rules of etiquette, there are still certain courtesies to keep in mind.
General Etiquette:
- First and foremost, be considerate, kind and thoughtful.
- RSVP as soon as possible, within a day or two of the invitation. This will give the host/hostess time to adjust plans if you are unable to attend.
- Inform the host/hostess of any important food allergies or restrictions.
- You can ask if he/she would like you to bring something, but it is not necessary. This would be more appropriate for a gathering with family or close friends.
- Bring a hostess gift that can be used after the party with a thank you card attached.
- Keep cell phone use to a minimum if absolutely necessary. The best option is not to use it at all!
- Keep the mood light and enjoyable. Don’t allow grudges and hard feelings with other guests ruin the atmosphere of the event. There is a lot of planning and preparation that goes into hosting a gathering, and often this act of hospitality is an expression of love. Be mindful of this and deal with your “issues” another time.
Basic Table Manners:
- Wash your hands before coming to the table.
- Do not sit down at the table until the host/hostess has invited you to.
- Allow the host/hostess to assign seating.
- Ensure all food items on the table have been passed around before you start eating.
- If there are multiple utensils at the place setting, the general rule is to work from the outside in.
- Chew with your mouth closed.
- Don’t talk with your mouth full.
- Do not check your cell phone while seated at the table.
- When dessert is being served, wait for the host/hostess to return to the table before you start eating.
- Thank the host/hostess for the meal.
- Offer to help clear the table and clean up.
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